1. The Bible talks about being pure before marriage. 2. I want to one day be able to say I waited for my future wife all my life when I had chances to have sex with other girls. Would you want someone to be like yeah I had sex with like 15 other people before you but baby I love you so much. Would it not lose it meaning? It’s meant to be shared with someone really special. While I do agree in someway it’s healthy for a marriage to have an enjoying sex life, I disagree 110% that it makes or break a relationship with someone. You’re going to not be with someone you love because the sex isn’t up to your stand yet? That’s mind blowing and crazy talk. Be real you don’t think they’ll get better hahaha? I mean lets be real practice makes perfect you know….. *wink wink* Bottom line: I have no shame in saying I’m waiting for marriage for sex. If you think sex with make or break your relationship with someone you love then you love them for the wrong reason. God bless.